Let’s face it. Being in a long-distance relationship is never easy. Life makes it a challenge to focus on your sugar relationship often enough as it is. But when you can’t necessarily see each other as often as you like, it only adds more stress to the equation and makes it even harder to keep the spark alive.
However, two people who are equally invested in sugar dating can make it work if they’re determined enough. So if your sugar daddy is losing interest in holding up his end of the deal, it might be time to protect your heart. Here are some telltale signs to keep an eye out for.
You’re always the one doing the initiating.
Naturally, things aren’t going to be 100 percent even all the time, but you should both be reaching out and initiating contact. If it’s always you handling that side of things, then it’s likely that your guy just doesn’t care about the relationship like he used to.
You deserve someone who texts or calls first now and then instead of always waiting to respond to your attempts to reach out. You shouldn’t feel like you have to push someone who loves you to make room in his schedule for you to see one another. So if you really feel like you’re the only one doing the work anymore, it’s probably because you are.
He’s crazy busy all the time.
Many men don’t quite know how to be straightforward about the things they want and need, especially if it involves telling someone something they know they won’t want to hear. They don’t like confrontation, arguments, or anything negative, so they avoid anything and everything that might lead there.
So instead of your guy simply telling you upfront that your relationship isn’t working for him anymore, he might just avoid it by always being too busy to get together or even to talk too long. It’s one thing not to want to be in a relationship anymore, but it’s another to string someone along because you don’t have the guts to just sit them down for a talk.
He doesn’t care about impressing you.
When your guy does make the time to get together with you, what’s his vibe like? Is he clearly happy to see you and psyched about finally spending some quality time together? Does he still put some effort into looking good for you and otherwise trying to impress you a little, or does he always look like he just rolled out of bed?
Although it’s normal for people to relax at least somewhat after being in a relationship a while, something’s wrong when a long-distance partner can’t even be bothered to look nice for a date they’ve supposedly been looking forward to. So pay attention if your guy just isn’t on point the way he used to be. It’s a sign he likely just doesn’t care the way he used to, either.
He’s terrible at communicating.
When you’re in a long-distance relationship, your entire connection hinges on communication. That means calls, video dates, texting, and social media contact are vitally important. And as with other aspects of maintaining a relationship, it’s not possible for just one of you to carry the entire connection on their own.
So if you feel like you rarely to never hear from your long-distance guy, then it’s pretty clear your relationship isn’t a priority to him. Maybe he doesn’t think what the two of you have is anything serious, or he may just be a terrible communicator. But the thing is, if he really cared about you, communicating regularly and consistently would be important to him.
Something just feels off between the two of you.
If you were interested in being in a long-distance relationship in the first place, then it’s probably safe to say things were spectacular between the two of you when you first met. Everything was in sync, and you couldn’t wait to see each other. But now, your sugar daddy is just way too busy and things are just completely off in a way that’s impossible to ignore.
Nothing feels exciting between you anymore, and you don’t pick up on any spark from your guy when you’re talking or able to get together. You just know something’s wrong. Gut feelings like that should never be ignored, as they’re almost always right on, so pay attention.
At the end of the day, the right long-distance relationship might well be worth it, but you deserve better than sitting around waiting for a guy who doesn’t care enough to call or make time to see you. So ask yourself whether this is really what you want anymore.
You could be playing the field instead or being spoiled rotten by a hot sugar daddy who adores you. Life is short, and you deserve to be living one that feels good on every level. Don’t be afraid to go out and get it.